add "reject quotes" toggle at user and instance level

+ improve, cleanup, and de-duplicate quote resolution
+ add warning message when quote cannot be loaded
+ add "process error" framework to display warnings when a note cannot be correctly loaded from another instance

packages/backend/src/models/json-schema/federation-instance.ts

@@ -126,6 +126,11 @@ export const packedFederationInstanceSchema = {
 			optional: false,
 			nullable: false,
 		},
+		rejectQuotes: {
+			type: 'boolean',
+			optional: false,
+			nullable: false,
+		},
 		moderationNote: {
 			type: 'string',
 			optional: true, nullable: true,

packages/backend/src/models/json-schema/note.ts

@@ -256,6 +256,14 @@ export const packedNoteSchema = {
 			type: 'number',
 			optional: true, nullable: false,
 		},
+		processErrors: {
+			type: 'array',
+			optional: true, nullable: true,
+			items: {
+				type: 'string',
+				optional: false, nullable: false,
+			},
+		},
 
 		myReaction: {
 			type: 'string',

packages/backend/src/models/json-schema/user.ts

@@ -445,6 +445,10 @@ export const packedUserDetailedNotMeOnlySchema = {
 			type: 'boolean',
 			nullable: false, optional: true,
 		},
+		rejectQuotes: {
+			type: 'boolean',
+			nullable: false, optional: true,
+		},
 		//#region relations
 		isFollowing: {
 			type: 'boolean',