fix(backend): memory leak in memory caches (#14363)

* encapsulate `MemoryKVCache<T>`

* remove infinity caches

* encapsulate other caches

* add missing awaits to internally synchronize caches

* implement pull-through caching

* tune cache lifetimes

* optimize cache GC by stopping early

* summarize changes in CHANGELOG.md

* Fix timeout comments

Co-authored-by: かっこかり <67428053+kakkokari-gtyih@users.noreply.github.com>

* add comments about awaiting the redis write

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Co-authored-by: かっこかり <67428053+kakkokari-gtyih@users.noreply.github.com>

packages/backend/src/core/UserKeypairService.ts

@@ -25,7 +25,7 @@ export class UserKeypairService implements OnApplicationShutdown {
 	) {
 		this.cache = new RedisKVCache<MiUserKeypair>(this.redisClient, 'userKeypair', {
 			lifetime: 1000 * 60 * 60 * 24, // 24h
-			memoryCacheLifetime: Infinity,
+			memoryCacheLifetime: 1000 * 60 * 60, // 1h
 			fetcher: (key) => this.userKeypairsRepository.findOneByOrFail({ userId: key }),
 			toRedisConverter: (value) => JSON.stringify(value),
 			fromRedisConverter: (value) => JSON.parse(value),